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Questions we are asked about behaviour


 

The following scenarios are some of the more frequent questions we are asked on the Autism Helpline. Not all of the examples will be applicable to the person with an ASD you know. You may also find some of the strategies useful to adapt to other situations.

This is by no means an exhaustive list of solutions. Every situation and individual is unique and you may have found other solutions to similar situations. This is why keeping a behaviour diary can be a useful way of examining an individual situation. If there is a difficulty you are having at the moment which you do not find covered here, and would like further information, please contact the Autism Helpline.


 

Different behaviour between school and home
My son displays different behaviour between school and home. School say they do not have any behavioural difficulties with him, but at home it is a different matter.

My son has begun to bite me and my husband
If your son has suddenly started to bite either himself or other people, it is important to first rule out any medical or dental problems that could be causing pain ...

My son's behaviour has suddenly changed
If there has been any sudden change in behaviour, we always recommend arranging a medical check-up for your child ...

My son is anxious about moving to secondary school
My son is due to move to secondary school in September and is becoming anxious about the change. Any suggestions on how to make the transition as smooth as possible?

My son has little awareness of danger
My son has little awareness of danger and will try and run out in the road or escape out of the window.

My son is targetting certain staff at his home
It might be useful to try and identify what it is about this person your son might not like. For example, could the member staff use perfume which your son does not like, or finds overwhelming? ...

Any tips on teaching my son self-help skills?
I am trying to teach my son self-help skills such as getting himself dressed in the morning and washing himself. Any tips?

Challenging behaviour during transition times
My 24-year-old son has autism and enjoys going to the local day centre. However, staff there have noticed displays of challenging behaviour especially during transition between different activities.

My daughter is prone to aggressive behaviour
My 12-year-old daughter is becoming prone to more aggressive behaviour, especially towards her siblings as outbursts of swearing.

My son will hug strangers in the street
My 14-year-old son does not understand appropriate body contact with different people and will hug strangers in the street.

Aggression when TV schedule changes
I work with an adult who becomes very aggressive when the TV schedule for his favourite programme changes.

Anxiety during break and lunch times at school
My daughter's teacher has told me that she gets very anxious at break and lunch time. Is there any way of helping her to overcome this?

My son appears not to listen in class
He says he can't concentrate. Is there anyway of helping him overcome this?

My daughter reacts badly when we say 'no'
Some children who have an ASD do not like the word 'no'. This may be because they know it means they cannot do something they want to do. For other children, it is the actual word that they do not like ...

Difficulty getting my son to do his homework
Homework can be a very difficult issue for children with an ASD to understand ...

My adult son does not like to wash himself
This is beginning to impact on social situations he is in.

My daughter likes to chew on pebbles
Putting non-edible items in your mouth is sometimes also known as pica ...

My son has started smearing
There can be a sensory motivation to smearing. It may be that the texture is something that your son enjoys ...

I find it difficult to motivate my 24-year-old son
He hardly ever leaves the house and will often spend hours on his own in his room.