Many people with an autism spectrum disorder (ASD) - diagnosed and undiagnosed - have partners and children.
Some manage partnerships and family life very capably, while others may experience great difficulties. Partners may find that living with someone who has an ASD is difficult. For example, some partners say that it is difficult to cope with apparently hurtful behaviour, even when they know their partner did not intend to cause any hurt or upset.
One solution is to be more frank and explicit: tell your partner what you are thinking and feeling and what you need them to do in response. Do not be ambiguous and do not assume your wishes/emotions are acknowledged and understood.
It may also be hard for you to understand your partner's needs. They may be interested in things that seem boring to you; they may find apparently normal social situations very stressful; or they may be reluctant to give up routines. It helps to have a calm, reasoned discussion about any issues. You may find that writing things down is easier, as your partner has more time to take in what you've said and respond to you. Drawing up a timetable for certain activities, such as mealtimes, can help your partner to know what is going to happen when.